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Critics of Islam often bring up issues that seem to be controversial without providing the proper context for the situation or how such a situation would have been viewed in light of Arab society at the time of the Prophet – peace be upon him. This leads to false information being spread and misleading impressions being given. One such issue is with the wording of a response that the Companion Abu Bakr to one of the pagans. These critics claim that Abu Bakr was unnecessarily insulting and insensitive to the other’s religion. This article will examine the context of this incident and explain how Abu Bakr’s statement would have been viewed by the Arabs during that particular time period.
Some critics of Islam took issue with the reply by the Prophet’s Companion Abu Bakr – may Allah bless them both – to ‘Urwah ibn Mas‘ud when he represented the pagans on the eve of Truce of Ḥudaybiyyah. They claim that he used indecent words and he was being offensive to another religious belief system. Members of the Ahmadiyya group use this incident to defend Mirza Ghulam Ahmad’s bluntly obscene language against his opponents. Therefore, it is important to see the true significance of Abu Bakr’s words in light of its context and usage among the Arabs. The specific words he used are literally translated as, “Go suck the clitoris of al-Lat!”
2. The context
In the sixth year after the Hijrah, the Prophet – peace and blessings of Allah be upon him – along with about 1,400 Companions left for Makkah to perform pilgrimage (‘umrah) to the blessed Ka‘bah. The Muslims traveled close to Makkah and camped at a place called Ḥudaybiyyah. While the Muslims camped there, a series of events took place and a number of emissaries of the people of Makkah came to the noble Prophet. ‘Urwah ibn Mas‘ud was one of these emissaries and he came assuming that the Prophet had actually come to Makkah to fight. He said:
O Muhammad! Won’t you feel any scruple in extirpating your relations? Have you ever heard of anyone amongst the Arabs extirpating his relatives before you? On the other hand, if the reverse should happen, [nobody will aid you, for] by Allah, I do not see [with you] dignified people, but people from various tribes who would run away leaving you alone.
Hearing this Abu Bakr – may Allah be pleased with him – could not hold himself and said:
امصص ببظر اللات، أنحن نفر عنه وندعه؟
Muhsin Khan (whose translation of Sahih al-Bukhari is most widely used) renders it as:
Abu Bakr abused him and said, ‘Do you say we would run and leave the Prophet alone?’
Aisha Bewley phrases it as:
Suck al-Lat’s nipples! Would we flee from him and desert him!
Alfred Guillaume has also rendered it similarly in his translation of Sirat Ibn Ishaq:
Suck al-Lat’s nipples! Should we desert him?
Others who translated it literally have put it somewhat differently.
Michael Fishbein in his translation of the relevant section of The History of Al-Tabari states it as:
Go suck the clitoris of al-Lat! Would we flee and leave him?
3. The point explained
Critics assert that the first part of Abu Bakr’s reply was actually an insult to the religion of ‘Urwah. David Wood states that this was a response to a rather “reasonable comment” of ‘Urwah.
Before looking at the implication of ‘Urwah’s words and their merit to become a trigger for Abu Bakr’s response, let’s first produce a literary analysis of Abu Bakr’s words.
3.1 A proverb
The words that literally mean ‘suck the clitoris of so and so’ are actually a proverb. In his Arabic-English Lexicon, Edward William Lane writes:
(أمصص بظرفلانة): a prov. of the Arabs.
Al-‘Ayni (d. 855 A.H.) writes:
وقال ابن التين: هي كلمة تقولها العرب عند الذم والمشاتمة، لكن تقول: بظر أمه، واستعار أبو بكر، رضي الله تعالى عنه، ذلك في اللات لتعظيمهم إياها
And Ibn at-Tin said: This is the phrase Arabs use for condemnation and vilification, but they say: ‘Clitoris of his mother.’ And Abu Bakr used it with reference to al-Lat due to their [i.e. the pagans’] respect for her.
We shall see the shift from the regular use of the idiom in the contextual explanation and a related example in the following lines.
3.2 Contextual explanation: what triggered Abu Bakr’s response?
It might be too easy for David Wood to see ‘Urwah’s remarks that invited this response as “reasonable,” but a diligent student of history would have no choice but to strongly differ with him. On this point, one needs to put oneself in the boots of Abu Bakr before making an assessment. To be true it is not even for Muslims of this day to be in that state.
The Muslims left Madinah without any intention or preparation for war. However, the pagans of Makkah decided not to let the Muslims enter the city and venerate the blessed Ka‘bah. When the Muslims set out on the journey, they got disturbing news about the plans of the Quraysh of Makkah. It was for this reason that the Prophet had to take an unconventional route to ensure that he could reach the holy precincts of Makkah and ensue with the rituals; thus clearing up the situation to the Quraysh and allowing them to do away with their unneeded apprehensions.
Yet the pagans were not ready to give the Muslims an easy passage to the holy sanctuary; being unarmed, the Muslims were in a quite vulnerable situation. The severity of the situation can further be known by the fact that later when some incidents led to the pledge under the tree (Bayt ar-Ridwan), the attendees were promised abundant reward and blessings. This was only proportional to the danger the Muslims were then exposed to in that particular condition of being unarmed and unprotected in a hostile territory.
Basing his argument on a baseless assumption of the Muslims coming to Makkah with hostile designs, ‘Urwah actually threatened the Muslims. He did not just stop at that; he even went on to attribute cowardice and infidelity to the Prophet’s Companions. This was more than just a mere comment. It was an attempt to make the Prophet feel skeptical of his Companions. Therefore, it was natural for the Companions to take strong exception to these statements and respond with strong words. Qur’an 8:15-16 terms fleeing from an encounter a major sin. Furthermore, deserting a prophet was more than just a sin. Thus, any suggestion to it was a direct attack against the noble Companions of the Prophet – may the peace and blessings of Allah be upon them all.
With this context, it is easy to understand why Abu Bakr verbally lashed out at ‘Urwah, using the name of the pagans’ deity. He was actually telling him that a believer in a pagan deity should have never have misgivings about the faithful companions of the Prophet whose conviction rested on the belief in the All-Powerful One True God.
With reference to a classical scholar, Ibn Ḥajar points to the rhetorical significance of these words:
وقال بن المنير في قول أبي بكر تخسيس للعدو وتكذيبهم وتعريض بإلزامهم من قولهم إن اللات بنت الله تعالى الله عن ذلك علوا كبيرا بأنها لو كانت بنتا لكان لها ما يكون للإناث
Ibn al-Munir said, ‘In the words of Abu Bakr, there are condemnation and rejection of the adversaries and a response to their allegation that al-Lat is the daughter of Allah – Allah is exalted above this – for if it were a daughter [of Allah], it would have what the females do.’
4. More on the usage of these words
With reference to Lane’s Arabic-English Lexicon, we have seen that the words used are actually a proverb of the Arabs used for condemnation and expressing one’s strong reaction.
Here are a couple of examples that help us understand the true sense of these words.
Ibn ‘Abd Rabbih (d. 328 A.H.) writes:
ومن أعزّ الناس نفسا وأشرفهم همما: الأنصار، وهم الأوس والخزرج ابنا قيلة، لم يؤدّوا إتاوة قطّ في الجاهلية إلى أحد من الملوك، وكتب إليهم تبّع يدعوهم إلى طاعته ويتوعّدهم إن لم يفعلوا؛ فكتبوا إليه:
العبد تبّع كم يروم قتالنا … ومكانه بالمنزل المتذلّل
إنّا أناس لا ينام بأرضنا … عض الرسول ببظر أمّ المرسل
فغزاهم تبّع أبو كرب، فكانوا يقاتلونه نهارا ويخرجون إليه القرى ليلا، فتذمّم من قتالهم ورحل عنهم.
The Anṣar were among the most high-spirited and honorable people, and they were descendants of Aws and Khazraj, the sons of Qaylah. They never paid tribute to any king during the period of ignorance [before Islam]. [King] Tubba’ wrote to them, calling upon them to obey him and threatening them if they did not. They wrote back to him:
How eagerly the slave, Tubba’, yearns to fight us!
Yet his place is ever a home of ignominy.
We are a people in whose land no [enemy] dares sleep.
May the messenger bite the clitoris of the sender’s mother.
So Tubba’ Abu Karib attacked them, and they used to fight him by day and send him a guest’s meal by night. He finally got weary of fighting them and left.
This is a good parallel to what is at hand. The context is almost the same as related to sovereignty and chivalry. When an Arab’s chivalry is put to doubt by someone, he lashes out with these words at the one who does it.
Also note another point of comparison: the messenger of King Tubba’ asked the Anṣar to subdue to an alien authority so they used the proverb making the mother of the sender the object, “May the messenger bite the clitoris of the sender’s mother.” Likewise, when ‘Urwah attacked the belief of the Companions by making an attempt to cast aspersions on their fidelity to the Prophet and chivalry at a certain stage in the long religious conflict, Abu Bakr responded by bringing in his deity for whose sake he and his people were troubling the Muslims.
In fact, the proverbial phrase is not meant as an extremely offensive abuse. It is just a way to strongly condemn or point out the worthlessness of something. Consider the following line by renowned classical Arabic literary critic Ibn Rashiq al-Qayrawani (d. 463 A.H.):
إن الشعراء ثلاثة: شاعر، وشويعر، و ماص بظر أمه
Literally, it would be translated as:
Verily, the poets are of three categories: an excellent poet, an ordinary poet and the one who bites the clitoris of his mother.
The meaning however is that the third category is of third-class poets who produce absolute rubbish in literary terms. This is the ultimate proof that the original sense of the words is neither abuse nor obscene yelling but it is an expression used for forceful condemnation.
‘Amr ibn Bahr al-Jahiẓ (d. 255 A.H.), referring to this narration and a few more, says:
وإنما وُضعت هذه الألفاظ ليستعملها أهل اللغة، ولو كان الرأي ألاّ يُلفظ بها ما كان لأوّلِ كونها معنىً، ولكان في التَّحريم والصَّون للُغة العرب أن تُرفع هذه الأسماء والألفاظ منها. وقد أصاب كلَّ الصَّواب من قال: لكلِّ مقامٍ مقال
These words were created to be used by all Arabic-speaking people, and to hold that they ought never to be uttered would be to make nonsense of their creation; in that case, it would be more logical and better for the purity of the Arabic language if these words were to be withdrawn from it. Verily, he uttered the total truth who said, ‘Every single audience and situation has a different talk to it.’
This indeed is the truth; every audience has a talk to it! In the given situation, Abu Bakr – may Allah be pleased with him – was absolutely justified in using the words we have shown with reference to Arabic literature to be nothing but a tool for expressing forceful reproof. ‘Urwah, at that time a pagan, asked for it and Abu Bakr just gave the befitting response.
5. Summary and Conclusion
1- It was ‘Urwah who first hurt the religious feelings of Abu Bakr and the other Muslims. Therefore, anyone learning of the incident makes no sense to object to Abu Bakr who represented Muslims in this reaction.
2- Abu Bakr used the template of a well-known Arabic proverb, which was used for condemnation in different contexts.
When used in general description or ordinary personal disputes, it was related to the addressee’s mother (cf. Ibn Rashiq).
For instance, the people of Madinah used it when speaking about a messenger of one who wanted them to submit to his authority, so they made a reference to the sender’s mother (cf. Ibn ‘Abd Rabbih).
When used in a religious context to respond to an attack by a believer in gods and goddesses, a goddess became the object of the scorn invited by one of its devotees. This scorn even had rhetoric against the false belief.
 at-Tabari, The History of Al-Tabari: The Victory of Islam, Translated by Michael Fishbein (Albany: State University of New York Press, 1997) Vol. 8, 76
 al-Bukhari, The Translation of the Meanings of Sahih Al-Bukhari, Translated by Muhammad Muhsin Khan (Riyadh: Darussalam, 1997) Hadith 2731
In Ibn Hisham’s edition of Sirat Ibn Ishaq, the original wording for the second part of the sentence is slightly different.
 at-Tabari, The History of Al-Tabari: The Victory of Islam, Vol. 8, 76
 Lane, Edward William, Arabic-English Lexicon, (Beirut: Librairie du Liban, 1968) Book 1, 222
 al-‘Ayni, ‘Umdat al-Qari Sharh Sahih al-Bukhari (Beirut: Dar Ihya’ at-Turath al-‘Arabi) Vol. 14, 10
 Ibn Ishaq, The Life of Muhammad, 500-501
 Ibn Hajar al-‘Asqalani, Fath al-Bari, (Beirut: Dar al-Fikr, 1379 AH) Vol. 5, 340
 Ibn Rashiq al-Qayrawani, al-‘Umdah fi Mahasin ash-Shi‘r wa Adabih, (Beirut: Dar al-Jil, 1981) Vol. 1, 116
 al-Jahiz, Rasa’il al-Jahiz, (Cairo: Maktabat al-Khaniji, 1964) Vol. 2, 93
Published : October 17, 2014